https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9530#M1106 Hi there, Thank you for all your kind words for the passing of Gary, we had the funeral yesterday and it was such a beautifull day both the service and the wake afterwards, the town I live in really took care of all the wake, we didn't have to do a thing and the support was amazing, Gary & I are truely blessed to be in this community. I still have all family here, they go home tomorrow except for 1 sister, but I suppose when I am alone and have time to reflex on my next journey by myself it will be the tester, but I am sure it will be fine. Hugs Lorraine. Sat, 01 Sep 2012 14:55:04 GMT Rain_76 2012-09-01T14:55:04Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9514#M1090 Hi everyone, just letting you know that my husband Gary passed away at 5.50 this morning, he is no longer in pain. Lorraine Tue, 28 Aug 2012 02:36:40 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9514#M1090 Rain_76 2012-08-28T02:36:40Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9515#M1091 Lorraine, I am sad to hear ur husband has passed away..... May he rest in peace in a better place.... And may u find comfort in knowing his pain has ended. Take care and I pray u have the love and support u need at this time. Rubes Tue, 28 Aug 2012 04:39:25 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9515#M1091 Rubes1984 2012-08-28T04:39:25Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9516#M1092 Hugs Lorraine,sorry for your loss.Ron. Tue, 28 Aug 2012 06:34:51 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9516#M1092 Ron50 2012-08-28T06:34:51Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9517#M1093 I'm so sorry for berevement. Be gentle with yourself, and keep letting us know how you're going. love and hugs. Tue, 28 Aug 2012 08:13:55 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9517#M1093 little_stitcher 2012-08-28T08:13:55Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9518#M1094 Hi Lorraine - I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. Good thing is, as you said, your husband is no longer in pain. Please take of yourself. Wed, 29 Aug 2012 02:22:18 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9518#M1094 peanutz 2012-08-29T02:22:18Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9519#M1095 Hello Lorraine, I am feeling so sad for you. Try to remember the good times and take care of yourself. xx Wed, 29 Aug 2012 06:27:23 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9519#M1095 suzie_s 2012-08-29T06:27:23Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9520#M1096 I am sorry that you have lost your husband to cancer . It must have been so difficult towards the end . There will still be support here for you . Wed, 29 Aug 2012 11:07:30 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9520#M1096 SILLY 2012-08-29T11:07:30Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9521#M1097 Hi Lorraine, Only just joined this site today. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Mark. Wed, 29 Aug 2012 11:08:21 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9521#M1097 mark2709 2012-08-29T11:08:21Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9522#M1098 Hi Lorraine My condolences to you and your family. Julie xo Wed, 29 Aug 2012 12:26:20 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9522#M1098 Jules2 2012-08-29T12:26:20Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9523#M1099 RIP Gary. My deepest sympathies to you Lorraine. Wed, 29 Aug 2012 13:19:54 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9523#M1099 Melanie 2012-08-29T13:19:54Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9524#M1100 Hi Lorraine Heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Prayers of strength and warm hugs of comfort, Pamela. Thu, 30 Aug 2012 00:37:02 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9524#M1100 Pamela 2012-08-30T00:37:02Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9525#M1101 Hi Lorraine you are such a strong person and Gary was so very lucky to have you beside him throughout this. your beautiful family are your support now and from what i saw at the funeral you will never be alone. i only wish i had the courage to visit you and gary, to offer help or just lend an ear. i just dont have that sort of courage at the moment knowing my sister is not far away from this stage. life is such a bitch as i just sitting here waiting for the phone to ring and for someone to tell me my beautiful sister is gone. I hate living this far from Mandurah at the moment as i want to be there everyday and its an impossibility. take care and hugs Linda xx Sat, 01 Sep 2012 07:25:57 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9525#M1101 jodielee12 2012-09-01T07:25:57Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9526#M1102 Hi Lorraine you are such a strong person and Gary was so very lucky to have you beside him throughout this. your beautiful family are your support now and from what i saw at the funeral you will never be alone. i only wish i had the courage to visit you and gary, to offer help or just lend an ear. i just dont have that sort of courage at the moment knowing my sister is not far away from this stage. life is such a bitch as i just sitting here waiting for the phone to ring and for someone to tell me my beautiful sister is gone. I hate living this far from Mandurah at the moment as i want to be there everyday and its an impossibility. take care and hugs Linda xx Sat, 01 Sep 2012 07:26:14 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9526#M1102 jodielee12 2012-09-01T07:26:14Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9527#M1103 Hi there, Thank you for all your kind words for the passing of Gary, we had the funeral yesterday and it was such a beautifull day both the service and the wake afterwards, the town I live in really took care of all the wake, we didn't have to do a thing and the support was amazing, Gary & I are truely blessed to be in this community. I still have all family here, they go home tomorrow except for 1 sister, but I suppose when I am alone and have time to reflex on my next journey by myself it will be the tester, but I am sure it will be fine. Hugs Lorraine. Sat, 01 Sep 2012 14:54:15 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9527#M1103 Rain_76 2012-09-01T14:54:15Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9528#M1104 Hi there, Thank you for all your kind words for the passing of Gary, we had the funeral yesterday and it was such a beautifull day both the service and the wake afterwards, the town I live in really took care of all the wake, we didn't have to do a thing and the support was amazing, Gary & I are truely blessed to be in this community. I still have all family here, they go home tomorrow except for 1 sister, but I suppose when I am alone and have time to reflex on my next journey by myself it will be the tester, but I am sure it will be fine. Hugs Lorraine. Sat, 01 Sep 2012 14:54:24 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9528#M1104 Rain_76 2012-09-01T14:54:24Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9529#M1105 Hi there, Thank you for all your kind words for the passing of Gary, we had the funeral yesterday and it was such a beautifull day both the service and the wake afterwards, the town I live in really took care of all the wake, we didn't have to do a thing and the support was amazing, Gary & I are truely blessed to be in this community. I still have all family here, they go home tomorrow except for 1 sister, but I suppose when I am alone and have time to reflex on my next journey by myself it will be the tester, but I am sure it will be fine. Hugs Lorraine. Sat, 01 Sep 2012 14:54:42 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9529#M1105 Rain_76 2012-09-01T14:54:42Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9530#M1106 Hi there, Thank you for all your kind words for the passing of Gary, we had the funeral yesterday and it was such a beautifull day both the service and the wake afterwards, the town I live in really took care of all the wake, we didn't have to do a thing and the support was amazing, Gary & I are truely blessed to be in this community. I still have all family here, they go home tomorrow except for 1 sister, but I suppose when I am alone and have time to reflex on my next journey by myself it will be the tester, but I am sure it will be fine. Hugs Lorraine. Sat, 01 Sep 2012 14:55:04 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9530#M1106 Rain_76 2012-09-01T14:55:04Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9531#M1107 My thoughts are with you, and I hope your next journey wont be as hard as the last journey although you had Gary beside you, god bless you and take care of yourself Thank you for been a friend Sandra Sat, 01 Sep 2012 21:56:35 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9531#M1107 rarsie 2012-09-01T21:56:35Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9532#M1108 Lorraine, It is great to hear that you have had such support and good on those that have been there for you. hugss Julie Sat, 01 Sep 2012 23:59:46 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/And-now-he-is-gone/m-p/9532#M1108 Jules2 2012-09-01T23:59:46Z