https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/My-husband-is-not-looking-too-good-and-I-m-so-scared/m-p/15526#M1824 Hi Mrs B, my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 non-Hodgkin's lymphoma in 2011, and I can remember feeling like this too. I can't give you any words of advice, but know I'm putting comforting arms around you now. The only advice I can give is just to take one day (or even one hour, if one whole day seems to daunting) at a time. lots of love and hugs for you, Emily Thu, 18 Aug 2016 23:08:55 GMT little_stitcher 2016-08-18T23:08:55Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/My-husband-is-not-looking-too-good-and-I-m-so-scared/m-p/15525#M1823 My husband was diagnosed in April with terminal cancer. He was diagnosed with bowel cancer 20 months ago, he had op to remove and also 8 months of chemo. 3 months later cancer was back, they operated again and then in April cancer is back and also spread to the pancreas. He has been losing weight and is In a lot of pain. I'm just writing here because I can't sleep and I'm so scared to lose my husband. He is everything to me and the thought of him actually dying is more pain than I can possibly bear. We have been positive up until today but he is now looking so unwell that we have cried together for the first time since all this happened. I think we may have been in denial, I'm not sure. Can somebody please give me some comforting words..how will I live without John. I can barely breath when I imagine a life without him. Please help me. If there is anyone out there that has lost their husband or is going through the same please help me. I don't know what to do, I feel like I'm dying with him. Thu, 18 Aug 2016 13:47:14 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/My-husband-is-not-looking-too-good-and-I-m-so-scared/m-p/15525#M1823 Mrs.B 2016-08-18T13:47:14Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/My-husband-is-not-looking-too-good-and-I-m-so-scared/m-p/15526#M1824 Hi Mrs B, my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 non-Hodgkin's lymphoma in 2011, and I can remember feeling like this too. I can't give you any words of advice, but know I'm putting comforting arms around you now. The only advice I can give is just to take one day (or even one hour, if one whole day seems to daunting) at a time. lots of love and hugs for you, Emily Thu, 18 Aug 2016 23:08:55 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/My-husband-is-not-looking-too-good-and-I-m-so-scared/m-p/15526#M1824 little_stitcher 2016-08-18T23:08:55Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/My-husband-is-not-looking-too-good-and-I-m-so-scared/m-p/15527#M1825 Thank you Emily, your kind words mean a lot to me right now. God Bless you xx Fri, 19 Aug 2016 18:52:35 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/My-husband-is-not-looking-too-good-and-I-m-so-scared/m-p/15527#M1825 Mrs.B 2016-08-19T18:52:35Z