https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/New-to-this/m-p/4137#M3085 Hi. My name is Tanya. My partner was diagnosed in February with T2 muscle invasive bladder cancer - high grade. He was told on Friday that he is scheduled for radical surgery in June to remove his bladder. At the moment he is having a hard time dealing with this news as he is 44 yrs old. I feel like our whole world is crumbling around us. Until Friday, he had a positive outlook. Now all that has changed. I am feeling useless, as there is nothing I can do to make this better. Mon, 26 Apr 2010 10:21:29 GMT tanya164 2010-04-26T10:21:29Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/New-to-this/m-p/4137#M3085 Hi. My name is Tanya. My partner was diagnosed in February with T2 muscle invasive bladder cancer - high grade. He was told on Friday that he is scheduled for radical surgery in June to remove his bladder. At the moment he is having a hard time dealing with this news as he is 44 yrs old. I feel like our whole world is crumbling around us. Until Friday, he had a positive outlook. Now all that has changed. I am feeling useless, as there is nothing I can do to make this better. Mon, 26 Apr 2010 10:21:29 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Coping-with-a-loved-one-s-cancer/New-to-this/m-p/4137#M3085 tanya164 2010-04-26T10:21:29Z