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i cant stand it

tisme — Tue, 05 May 2020 07:37:09 GMT

I have an ultrasound tomorrow , to find out what is going on with the ovaries etc doc is treating it like cancer till he finds out other wise , im so scared i feel sick , there is only me and autistic daughter left of the family , thought i had friends but i dont , i fear she will end up on the streets if anything happens to me . I try to hide it but she senses something is wrong and is constantly asking me if Im ok and if she is the cause. Ive never felt so alone I dont know what to do Im angry too , ive cared for so many others for so long now I need support and care and Im alone

Re: i cant stand it

sch — Tue, 05 May 2020 10:45:01 GMT

Hi tisme,

Well, you're in good company here, because we know how you are feeling.

Look, in case you are not aware, many people with cancer have the same issue. Just read a few threads.

So many friends and family just vanish at the mention of the "c" word. I suspect that it's because they don't know how to react. Have you tried directly asking them for support or assistance??

Perhaps also try calling some charities or a GP and seeing what sort of support can be arranged for you and your daughter, to assist you.

Best of luck

-s

Re: i cant stand it

tisme — Tue, 05 May 2020 11:04:51 GMT

family is dead just the two of us now , friends ive not had in several years too busy caring for elderly family ( now gone ) charities cant seem to help neither can gp

Re: i cant stand it

sch — Wed, 06 May 2020 02:11:22 GMT

Hi Tisme,

Any luck with your ultrasound?

How did it go?

Best of luck!!

-s

Re: i cant stand it

tisme — Wed, 06 May 2020 02:20:50 GMT

was ok but painful now i wait till friday for the results it will take 24 hours to send the report to the GP

Re: i cant stand it

sch — Wed, 06 May 2020 03:47:32 GMT

Good luck with your results!