https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Grief-and-loss/When-does-the-hurt-stop-after-loosing-a-love-one-to-cancer/m-p/14946#M166 FJE So sorry to read of your loss. It is tough to lose someone and very individual as to when people start to come to terms with what has happened. I hope that as time goes on you can remember good times and feel less at a loss. Julie Fri, 14 Aug 2015 13:19:23 GMT Jules2 2015-08-14T13:19:23Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Grief-and-loss/When-does-the-hurt-stop-after-loosing-a-love-one-to-cancer/m-p/14945#M165 When does the hurt stop after loosing a love one to cancer ? The days are not to bad, but when you come home and are alone, after spending 30 years, with some one you love and she is no longer with you, the nights are not so good. I feel that I am intruding on friends lives, ring and passing on my problems when they have there own family. I feel lost at night - not wanting to do anything. Fri, 14 Aug 2015 09:21:31 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Grief-and-loss/When-does-the-hurt-stop-after-loosing-a-love-one-to-cancer/m-p/14945#M165 FJE 2015-08-14T09:21:31Z https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Grief-and-loss/When-does-the-hurt-stop-after-loosing-a-love-one-to-cancer/m-p/14946#M166 FJE So sorry to read of your loss. It is tough to lose someone and very individual as to when people start to come to terms with what has happened. I hope that as time goes on you can remember good times and feel less at a loss. Julie Fri, 14 Aug 2015 13:19:23 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Grief-and-loss/When-does-the-hurt-stop-after-loosing-a-love-one-to-cancer/m-p/14946#M166 Jules2 2015-08-14T13:19:23Z