topic Re: Widowed in Grief and loss

Widowed

champton — Mon, 28 Sep 2020 19:52:20 GMT

I am new here . And My husband passed away unexpectedly from cancer 3 months ago he was in remission for 6 yrs and my whole life has been turned upside down we were married for 35yrs and my life has been turned upside

Down I feel so alone And disorientated I miss him so much my life seems so empty now he was my soul mate feels like half of me died with him

how do I adapt to life without him ??

Re: Widowed

sch — Mon, 05 Oct 2020 01:00:29 GMT

Hi,

I am so sorry to hear about your husband.

It must be so difficult to lose someone so suddenly that has been such a big part of your life for so long.

You've been married for almost as long as I've been alive. I can only imagine how difficult that is for you.

Do you have much family near by to talk about him with?

Sending my love.

-s

Re: Widowed

champton — Mon, 05 Oct 2020 06:00:24 GMT

Thank you for yr support and caring

yes it is very difficult I just feel so lost

and disorientated all of a sudden I have lost my soul mate I don’t know How to live life without him we were together for such a long time

yes I have family and a close network of friends but they can only do so

much they can’t take away the unbearable pain and grief

I just wasn’t ready to loose him

Re: Widowed

CMS2020 — Thu, 19 Nov 2020 02:25:56 GMT

Please look up also Grief/Bereavement Counselors in your region, they could really help you.

And if you feel like you're needing more mental health support, also ask counselors if there are any 12-Stop Social or Mutual Support Groups that can help you out.

Meetup.com may also provide links to support groups for you. I've found many on there.

Best wishes - CMS