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You are not alone - meet other young adults on the cancer journey in Sydney

Sun, 24 Apr 2011 03:50:04 GMT

I hope you are travelling well, Cancer changed my life. My values and what I wanted out of life changed. Everything changed. Yet for most of my old friends everything kept on going as it was. Not drinking alcohol the weekly piss ups no longer appealed and when I needed to talk to someone, needed someone to understand, they didn't. I am looking to set up some face to face groups for young adults in Sydney (20's-30's) with a dream to eventually be able to run educational evenings and a week/weekend long retreat; where you are able to take a break from the stress of the everyday, meet others who have been or are going through the cancer journey and learn a bit about diet and ways to help cope. I have met many inspirational people on my journey. I also believe in surrounding yourself with those who support and nurture our beliefs. My belief is in health, and so I am putting the call out to any other young adults (or those who were once young adults with cancer) who are interested in a face 2 face group in sydney. My cancer journey still continues, I would be honoured to travel with you on your journey too. Astley

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maddie86 — Sun, 24 Apr 2011 04:23:34 GMT

i think this is a great idea, i find caring for my boyfriend has left me feeling very lonely and depressed... its something u really have to go through to understand..

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Sun, 24 Apr 2011 08:57:41 GMT

and often there is no one to care for the carers... To care for someone you love with cancer is hard and frustrating, but you do such an amazing job. I know one of the reasons im alive today is because of my girl friend at the time and the support she gave me through the worst of it

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maddie86 — Sun, 24 Apr 2011 09:39:44 GMT

thats what my boyfriend says.. its hard because we dont go out a lot, therefore friends have dropped like flies! i knw things will get easier its just frustrating that people expect me to be happy n cheery like i used to.. its like they dont wanna know anything unless im happy 😕

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Thu, 28 Apr 2011 03:46:47 GMT

That's because when you are happy and cheery you give to others, but when we're not we sometimes need others to listen or comfort or even just understand us. We need others to give to us, or just be more forgiving (when we're not in the mood to party). Be aware of those who do listen and stick around, who are willing to go the extra distance if you ask. Sometimes you find that some friends are better than you realised (and some great friends arn't that great) Also sometimes just because you havn't seen them in ages doesn't make them a bad friend, a txt or call just to have a chat can do wonders.. What would you (and can you ask your bf too) want out of a support group in syd? Useful information, a safe place to express emotions, a place to socialise with others and/or a place where you can learn ways to help yourselves on your journey?

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Phona — Mon, 02 May 2011 03:22:12 GMT

Hi it's Patricia I met you on Saturday at the relay for life. I also met another woman Emily who is 31 and has breast cancer. She filled out a form and is also willing to help. Nick has her form. My heart goes out to the mother on the blogs with an 18 year old daughter who has cancer. I just want to help her daughter so much.

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butterfly1827 — Wed, 01 Jun 2011 09:32:58 GMT

this is a fantastic cancer i know since my diagnosis I have certainly being looking for a support network of people who actually do understand what its like to be the "person" diagnosed with cancer....particularly given the type of cancer (bowel) is not generally associated with young people (im 28) its hard to find away to relax and discuss my fears with people who really understand!

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Wed, 08 Jun 2011 11:31:57 GMT

Hi Butterfly, How are you going/feeling today? I wish I could say, come along to our meetings, but I'm still building momentum (and gathering the right support to make sure I do it right) for the support groups and will hopefully be able to set a date for our first meeting within a few weeks. However, if you would like I'm a regular at the general cancer meetings at the SAN hospital on wednesday mornings 10-12 and they are a beautiful bunch of people, plus I'll be there so you wont be the youngest :-) Surflife> thanks for the constructive comments 😉 random shot, but r u still coming to syd for your talk on surf n yoga?

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Wed, 08 Jun 2011 11:33:01 GMT

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Astrobella — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 03:21:07 GMT

I think this is such a great idea and I would LOVE to be able to meet some other young adults with cancer in Sydney. Please let me know if you need a hand organising. All the best,

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Thu, 21 Jul 2011 10:28:44 GMT

Hi Astrobella, Thank you, I would love to welcome you to a meeting :-) I'm aiming to hold the first meeting towards the end of August and I would really appreciate help organising. Particularly, in getting the word out and around Sydney or in whatever way suits you best. I'll send you a message with my email and mobile. Cheers, u_can

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kasey — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 12:27:35 GMT

Hey, Great idea, would love to come along. Was diagnosed 3 years ago, aged 29. Still pulling my life together, reprioritising, so would love to meet like-minded ppl. Cheers, k

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Thu, 18 Aug 2011 12:25:28 GMT

Hello beautiful people, I'm very happy to say that the first meeting will be held on Monday the 5th of September from 6.30pm at 40 Rocklands rd North Sydney (the Poche Centre). Check out www.facebook.com/YA.CAN.live for more info. After that it will be held at the same time every fortnight. My intent is to create a safe space where you can talk about what ever is important to you and allow you to connect with others who have been or are going through a similar circumstance. Then in the last half hour there will be time for a discussion, presentation or mediation - depending on what people want. The group is open to All young adults who have been affected by cancer. For me the type isn't important, as we all go through the same mental/emotional journey. Also, I see "young adults" as people in their 20's and 30's, but that's a guide and you'd just have to be comfortable hanging out with people in that age group. Finally, I've called the group YA CAN. :-) If you have any questions please shoot me a message. Otherwise, I look forward to meeting you at one of our groups. Peace.

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Astrobella — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 00:43:37 GMT

This is fantastic news! I can't wait til the 1st meeting. Thank you so much for organising it. Cheers, Yvette

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Skye — Sun, 13 Jul 2014 03:37:20 GMT

I think its a great idea to set up groups. Do you have any located in inner west? Marrickville?