topic hi there in Living with cancer https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Living-with-cancer/hi-there/m-p/11005#M1335 Hi there, another night,havent been on here in ages now, but thought i'd drop back in to say hello. Since I was last on my relationship has taken a turn for the worse. I am living with my fiancee but she is so negative about everything and claims I have put her through hell since we moved in together. I dont know what she means exactly by this.. I ask her for specifics and she wont give them. We havent had a relationship of any sort for about 6 months. We have tried counselling and that hasnt worked. So now I have decided to take the bull by the horns so to speak and get out. She is supposed to be my carer, but if this is caring i think Id prefer to die alone. Even her own family advises me to end it, that she will never change. I just wish I'd known all this before we bought a house together. All I wanted was someone to love and be loved by till I am no more, looks like that aint happenin anytime soon, oh well <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":disappointed_face:">😞</span> Wed, 13 Mar 2013 16:06:36 GMT johnrp1964 2013-03-13T16:06:36Z hi there https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Living-with-cancer/hi-there/m-p/11005#M1335 Hi there, another night,havent been on here in ages now, but thought i'd drop back in to say hello. Since I was last on my relationship has taken a turn for the worse. I am living with my fiancee but she is so negative about everything and claims I have put her through hell since we moved in together. I dont know what she means exactly by this.. I ask her for specifics and she wont give them. We havent had a relationship of any sort for about 6 months. We have tried counselling and that hasnt worked. So now I have decided to take the bull by the horns so to speak and get out. She is supposed to be my carer, but if this is caring i think Id prefer to die alone. Even her own family advises me to end it, that she will never change. I just wish I'd known all this before we bought a house together. All I wanted was someone to love and be loved by till I am no more, looks like that aint happenin anytime soon, oh well <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":disappointed_face:">😞</span> Wed, 13 Mar 2013 16:06:36 GMT https://onlinecommunity.cancercouncil.com.au/t5/Living-with-cancer/hi-there/m-p/11005#M1335 johnrp1964 2013-03-13T16:06:36Z