I am the other half of a great partnership...my husband is my world and that world came crashing down a year ago...23rd of Feb 2015. Rectal cancer. Life changes. Chemo/radiation....surgery....ileostomy...chemo...all will be good...oops no we got that wrong...more chemo....all will be good...oops got it wrong again....hubby playing ostrich and not dealing...me playing miss reality check...multiple secondaries...he is as fit as a mallee bull and doesn't want to know...but the next phase starts in a week...who else has been there? How do we get through this?
