Hi snr47
I sat down and wrote a long response to you on Sunday night and posted it - I do not know what happened to it.
I explained all about the alternatives to surgery, questions you needed ask, what information you needed. I stressed that you did not have to rush and before you saw the urologist on Monday there was important information you needed to know.
I guess it is all a bit late now and you are probably booked for surgery.
Go to the http://www.prostatehealth.org.au website - it is all evidence based material, and the links are carefully checked. You will find all the answers you need there.
I will be checking with the moderators of this site as to what happened to my post as it was there and I later copied and pasted some material from it to another posting.
Regards
Sailor
Never go into strange places on a falling tide without a pilot. Thomas Gibson Bowles
I think this was the quote I put at the end of the posting.