Liver cancer and recurring Breast cancer

[Suz81]

Hi All. 

My name is Suzanne I'm 43. I've recently been told that I have liver cancer and that the lymph nodes have returned to my breast. 

I also have heart/lung issues that I was born with making any treatment near impossible. 

I have bad kidneys to add to the mix because of the heart. 

Discussion was had on what options I have.

Option 1: Go back on chemo meds I was taking for the breast cancer and it severely affecting the kidneys which landed me in ICU.

Option 2: Do nothing and let everything run its course.

Both options don't have great outcomes, which I'm scared about.

I'm usually the most positive happy person but the reality of the end scares the hell out of me.

How does one make such a big choice not knowing if it's the right choice or not?

How is one to feel, behave?

I look around me at the moment I can things that I love to but then my head flips to negative and says soon I can't do these things or enjoy life. 💔 

[Maddi_CCNSW]

Hi Suzanne

Getting a cancer diagnosis, and then having to make decisions regarding your treatment, is a lot to come to terms with.  If you're in Australia, you could call the Cancer Council's 13 11 20 telephone support line.  The line is open Monday to Friday 9-5, the line is manned by Allied Health workers.  They can offer you emotional and clinical support.  They won't be able to tell you what direction to go in regarding your treatment, but they will be able to speak to you about it.  The 13 11 20, line can also provide you with emotional support and speak to you about the other support services the Cancer Council offer.  

If you're not in Australia, it may be worth considering speaking to your GP or consultant at the hospital for how you can access support to help you get through this period.  Lot of people reach out for extra emotional support, after a cancer diagnosis.

I hope you get the support you need. 

[Jess24]

Hi Suzanne, I'm so sorry that you've had this news. It must be so hard. I can't offer any advice on that choice, which would be informed by an oncologist (you can get also get a second opinion). Keep doing things that bring you joy. I care about you, and I'm here for you. Sending you lots of love and positivity.