Hi Allicat, You are gorgous to tell me about this website link so thanks very much and I hope you are Ok too. My false breast is quite heavy and it feels like it more heavy than my natural one but they are weighing the same weight so I don't understand the reason for the false breast to weigh more than my natural one. I've had a look at these website links and they look good. I hope you don't get into trouble by promoting it with me. Glenys 0 ... View more

Hi Allicat, You are gorgous to tell me about this website link so thanks very much and I hope you are Ok too. My false breast is quite heavy and it feels like it more heavy than my natural one but they are weighing the same weight so I don't understand the reason for the false breast to weigh more than my natural one. I've had a look at these website links and they look good. I hope you don't get into trouble by promoting it with me. Glenys 0 ... View more

0 you poor thing as it is the second time round. Hope things go OK for you. Glenys 00000 big lot of hugs ... View more

0 you poor thing as it is the second time round. Hope things go OK for you. Glenys 00000 big lot of hugs ... View more

You are dead right about their opinions changing over night and where would they turn to if they aren't responding to us as we have had cancer or with a loved one too. It is hell that we go through till they respond to us. Then they'll understand with their experiences. Glenys 0 ... View more

I am glad you are OK so this means that you have beaten the cancer but still adjusting to it. I am 16 months and I am OK and recieved a good result from it all. Boy if it is like this how can I cope with what is a head of me. I miss the old life too and others who haven't had this type of cancer don't relise at all. I'll just have to cope with two men in the house. My son isn't chatting to me at all. He just lays on his bed and Mum washes his clothes and dishes. he doesn't ask his parents what can I do for you as it is a one-way-street with him and he is 29 years old. He has his IT diploma and extension on it so he has 2 diplomas with IT. He is too proud to help at home. We have to tidy up a huge mess too. Glenys 0 ... View more

Hi Wombat4, How are you all? It is hard to deal with as when you had ever dealt with it in your life. It is unpleasent to deal with it as it touches a woman's feminine side of things. Having breast cancer after a mastectomy it is under your nose. It stands out so much as you feel unattached, lop sided, flat without having a recontruction. When I have a shower it stands out like a soar thumb. if I go through a recontruction this would mean a 8 hour massive op for me. Glenys ... View more

Hi Silly, it's hard to deal with when you can't chat to anyone especially your family. How old is your son as if he is old enough to empthies with you. If you keep it in it wouldn' be healthy for you. Glenys ... View more

it's cruel when others don't understand and you lose friends over it. When they are diagnosed who will they come too? When your friend said to you oh well someone had to get it and I agree with you that this is clueless of them to say it. They aren't untouchable with breast cancer which is the cancer that gets to women. it touches the feminine side of you. If you don't have a recontruction as I did it leaves you lop sided, flat, having a shower is emotional. half man half woman, and then not having feelings like this in your life. it's hard to deal with and others who haven't had this type of surgery can throw anything like a spanner in the works and make you so hurt. Remember they aren't untouchable so who will they run to if they need some help? Maybe they will say sorry to you and ask you for help. I feel let down tonight by my husband and son. It seems to me too that you are young person who has had breast cancer so I can say sorry to you as it must be so hard for you. I'm glad that I got breast cancer when I was 61 and beated it. Glenys 0 ... View more

Hi Ruby, I had breast cancer in 2010 with a lump out and a mastectomy and I find that life has changed for me. it changes your personality and its hard and wanting your old me back I feel it is hard also. I haven't had a recontruction either. Take it easy and with the flow and your hurt won't be so hurtful. This is what I do and its not too bad. Glenys. 0 ... View more