Dear JO26,   First of all, you have my deepest sympathy for the tremendous difficulties you are suffering in taking care of your mother, sister, and partner. You obviously have a lot on your plate, and you should be aware of the toll this is taking on you.    Here are some actions you may think about taking to help handle the circumstances:   Seek Support for Yourself: It is imperative that you put your personal health first. To find caregiver support groups, counseling services, or even relatives and friends who might offer emotional support, think about getting in touch. Taking care of yourself can help you assist others more effectively.  Open Communication: Try to help your sister and her husband have open communication, even though it's difficult. Maybe you could speak with them one-on-one in a calm and encouraging manner, sharing your worries for their welfare and the necessity of good communication and mutual support. Professional Counseling: Encourage your sister to get counseling for herself and her spouse. It can be extremely hard to deal with a major illness, but professional counseling can give them the skills they need to manage their emotions and support one another well. Medication Management: Considering your sister's intricate drug schedule, think about putting in place a system to assist her in better managing her prescriptions. This may entail using pill organizers, setting up medicine reminders, or, in extreme cases, seeking the assistance of a licensed caregiver. Delegate Responsibilities: Everything is beyond your reach. Assign duties when you can, whether it's setting up your mother's appointments, asking other family members for help, or paying an expert to handle particular responsibilities. Set Boundaries: It's critical to understand your own limitations and establish appropriate boundaries. Be certain to let your family members know what you can and cannot do, and don't be hesitant to refuse requests when they come up. Explore Additional Support Services: Investigate the support programs that your community offers to cancer patients and their caregivers. There can be groups that offer emotional support, practical help, or short-term care. Take Breaks: Plan regular self-care periods, even if they are only for a quick stroll or some alone time. Taking care of yourself is not selfish; rather, it's necessary if you want to be able to keep helping other people. Recall that you don't have to bear this weight alone and that it's acceptable to seek assistance. Make use of your support system and look into the resources your community has to offer. You're doing a fantastic job, but as you get through this difficult period, remember to put your own health first.     Take Care, Surya ... View more