I have to admit that I was shocked and completely surprised to read so many negative experiences from others who were diagnosed with cancer. I acknowledge that I have always been blessed to have incredible family, friends and work colleagues. When I was diagnosed with bowel cancer (Stage C) at the end of January the support just came flowing in from all corners. My support base has been incredible and has helped me immensely to stay positive and upbeat throughout my bowel surgery, getting used to my temporary illeostomy, and six months of aggressive chemo. I am about to have my 12th and last chemo session and everyone continues to stay invlolved in my recovery. I regularly send email updates as I just cannot catch up with everyone but they are patiently waiting in the wings following my last operation to remove my infusaport and close up my illeostomy. My only negative experience came from my boyfriend of a year. I ended the relationship 4 days after my cancer diagnosis as he was the only person in my close circle who didn't/couldn't support me. But I accept that in life you will always encounter negative experiences. I choose to concentrate on all the positives instead. I cannot fathom how loved ones can turn their back on someone who has been diagnosed with cancer. But life is incredibly short and I suggest you focus on those relationships that are real and nurturing. Know that you are a survivor and embrace the inner strength that got you through this whole ordeal. Forget those that chose to forget you - there are so many other beautiful people in this world to meet. ... View more