Its been 9 months since I had my 12 hour cancer operation. I had squamous cell carcinoma located under my tongue on the right of my jaw. I had my jaw bone replaced with my right fibula. I couldn't wait to get out of hospital afterwards to return to my old job. There was a problem though, I had nowhere to live.  I used to live with my father until he died and I wasn't able to stay at the family home anymore (long story). A long time friend offered me their car garage, in which I stayed for about 6 months until they no longer wanted to have me stay there. I then moved to a temporary location while I was working and my belongings were in storage. I was referred to a specialist in Oct 2023 but wasn't able to get an appointment date until March the following year (being last year). Immediately was referred to hospital for surgery. So, as abovementioned, I wanted to get out of hospital and back to work, like normal. I did have to wait 3 months for the moon boot phase.  Was welcomed back to work, but, I found it difficult to communicate. I was just barely able to be understood. (I have never been a person to show my emotions or ask for help, being brought up by a strict mother; be independent) .... there's more, but I'm at a stage now where I need help. Work cut back my shifts to 2 a fortnight. (!!!) I cant eat solid food - I sourced information on dietary basis. I live in my bedroom in a share house, whilst my belongings are still in storage. I haven't let myself cry for myself. Anyway, just thought I'd share somehow as I feel it's hard to seek personal face to face help. Chin up. 🙂  ... View more