Hi All I have started my own group on facebook. NSW widows it is called. Its a secret group so you may not be able to find it. If you look up Rebecca Walker or Petina Snook we will add you to the group. ... View more

Yeah I'm 35! Actually can't believe the shit I've been through in 35 years. Thanks ... View more

No I don't find this site or the other site negative! Christ some of the things I have read has helped me like u wouldn't believe. I find at this point of time that I want to get out with the kids and do things which I've been doing but sometimes for me and the kids it would be great to meet up with others in the same situation! Let's face it others just don't understand what we go through from day to day. I guess it come across to u that way as I am frustrated! I like everyone else, am fed up with havin to contact ppl and no one really making any time for us or inviting us to social things! I sometimes think that we are in the two hard basket and I don't know why! I'm self sufficient, I don't cry and whinge 24/7! I was startin to think mmm maybe I'm just an arsehole! I'm being quite serious too. After reading other post I find that it's a problem for most! It saddens me that ppl are like that! I guess for me it's about making new friendships and keepin the old friendships that have stuck it out with me for more than 2 months! Sorry of I was being negative that wasnt my intention at all! ... View more

Yeah rang and this is the site I was given and also the everafterwidowed site! You say you been down that path, what info was given to you? If you don't mind me asking? ... View more

Yes I realize that! But I'm talking about at anytime! I see alot of whinging on this site and on another about friends falling by the wayside etc. But when I post about organizing a meet up for young widows with kids to get together and take kids to the park Etc no one even replies! Getting out and doing positive things is far better for us than to sit around on here and whinge! It's about making a positive change! I for one am over doing stuff with the kids by myself and reading some of the comments on here there are others too! So why is it sooooo hard to get something going? ... View more

Hi Im always up for a chat! Nice to talk to adults for a change ... View more

Ah bloody cancer! Yeah there is life after it all but mate its hard! Some friends drop by the wayside and Well u feel isolated! I've joined ever after widowed as well had 26 ppl Look at the post but no replies! I don't understand why! ... View more

yeah i had a look and still cannot get into the forum. I sent an email so fingers crossed ... View more

Hi Yeah I have been trying to access the forum on that website with no success. Im in the Newcastle area. Im hoping that there is something on there. Yes the kids have been my reason to get out of bed. Its been bloody hard and it still is, will be until I go. Miss him so much and so do the kids but like I said I made my man a promise I intend to keep it. ... View more