Hi Nicole, MNy name is Patrick and have a daughter with very similar circumstances to your own.
My daughter Amy is 24 and buying a house with her partner Shane at North Lakes. Amy and Shane are to be married in 6 weeks - mid August - and Amy was diagnosed with bowel cancer 12 months ago...
Amy has started a blog and finds it very good to say how SHE feels and to voice HER feelings in her own words, she is very concerned about her partner Shane whom she is so in love with, and how he will cope on his own.
Amy is a beautiful person and and has questions the same as you. maybe.. my invitation to you to say hello to Amy will be good for you as it would be for Amy.
Amy's blog is http://amykeaney.wordpress.com
Nice to talk to you Nicole, I wish I could help you more,
Kind Regards
Patrick Keaney
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