@CaptainAustrali Hi, it is exactly six years since we discovered cancer on my tongue. The doctors moved that fast I didn't have time to think. So I am five and a half years post radiotherapy treatment. I didn't have to have chemo so that was a plus. I have what they call a woody neck due to radiation scaring. At times it feels like there is a lump there and is worse in the cold weather. One spot is a bit tender if it is pushed on so I leave it be. Sometimes it is difficult to turn my head fully to the right, side operated on and had heaviest doses. The shoulder on that side has dropped and the clavicle is raised as though it has been broken. This is due to the muscle weakness where the cut into my neck. Reading some of the posts brings back memories of that dark time. Now six years down the track I am still learning to adjust to not be able to eat a lot of the foods I enjoyed before this episode. I have learnt to manage some things but at times I would really love to go and have some junk food. We rarely eat out as it is too hard to find something on the menu for me. When having family get togethers I always prepare what is easiest for me, everyone understands. This is also the case with my close friends. I would like to say some things get easier but unfortunately the things that have been lost never return. My taste has never recovered fully, I guess because almost half my tongue was replaced with a flap from my forearm. On the bright side, it was caught in time and I am here to enjoy my beloved and long awaited grandaughte who will be two in a few weeks. Cheers to all and just take one step at a time, one day at a time.
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