I have had a spot on my tongue for a few months.  About a week ago it started to hurt, bad.  I went to the ER, the ER Dr told me it was cancer.  A CT of my neck showed a enlarged lymph node.  Today I saw a ENT that did a tongue biopsy.  He said he was sure it was cancer and I will be fine.  Anyway, I'm grasping here.  I have no pain since the biopsy and the lump in my next hasn't been felt by me since last week.   He said I will need chemo and radiation because if they do surgery, I will lose half my tongue!   I can't even bring myself to tell anyone this.  My husband knows, that's it! ... View more