Hi Scott1, I just read your post. I know it's been a while and I hope you have made some progress in your search. I too was told make the most of the good times and thank God I made it. I was shocked too but I believe it's about perspective, looking at your situation from another angle. I saw a psychologist all through my journey and that helped me alot. I read books, did art therapy via Cancer Council and that is what turned my life around. There are many options, some people prefer group counselling, some one on one, others do art, or gardening. It just depends on what you prefer. My best advice to you is to take one step at a time. It's my 14th year since I was told. I'm still making the most of the time I have. Wishing you the best.
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