My husband of 31 years my best friend and soulmate passed away with pancreatic cancer in June of 2020.  A healthy strong man never being sick or ever had to go to the doctor and was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer and what a blow and shock it was for him and for his whole family.  I know I'm not the only one with grief but needed to look for others going through this same feeling of loss and heartbreak and daily tears.  I know he would want us all to carry on but the missing is the worse to handle. He made our family complete and brought joy to everyone that knew him. I pray all through the day and believe God has a plan for us all, its just the missing is so hard.  I stay busy but the depression of him not in our life is hard to even face each day but I do and I make it through and I cry.  All the family and friends seem to be distancing now avoiding much conversation maybe thinking I should be getting over it I don't know, that's why I'm here to chat to know I'm not alone in this road of loss and sadness.

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