Hi. Am sitting here now waiting for news of my SIL's total masctectomy. She was onld diagonised a few weeks ago with advanced, aggressive breast cancer (her mum and sister also had same) but to me she is such a strong and positive lady but I'm also worried about my brother as he has lost his wife/soulmate to a brain heamorraghe(wrongly spelt I know) and I don't think he can lose another wife. I really can't think about the C word anymore but at least tomorrow I am getting a call from Cancer Council psychologist for 1hr chat and I really urge anyone out there to contact Council Council as they have been such a great help to me