hi all ... just got back from peter mac melbourne today... what to say worst news ever my darling husband of nearly 25 years has only a few months left to live . Its devasting he has fought so hard .. gist is a horrible and lonely cancer as it is so rare... it has spread to his abdomen and new tumours in his liver ... all i want is to spend as much lovely time with him as i can xx
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I am so sorry this C is a horrible decease the people all fight and fight it takes so much out of our dearest people and their carers I know my husband has been fighting it for over 4years. All I can say spend as much time as you can together I feel for you and you will be in my prayers. big hugs marshie
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my heart goes out to you, your husband and your loved ones. I also am in the same situation....we are at 26 years married and at Easter were given terminal diagnosis of 3 months....we are on borrowed time and all I can do is cry. I want so much - all of which can't be delivered. So lonely, so alone - Cancer is such a debilitating and insidious disease. If there is help through prayer and thoughts, mine are there. x
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Hi we have all been praying for our loved ones and just don't know what else to do. We go on praying for a miracle its so hard to think of the strong person we knew and what the crappy big C has done to them life just doesn't seem fair at times you work hard all your life and look forward to the later years when you can relax and enjoy each other then this C comes along and messes everything up. Still we keep praying So we keep the faith Hugs to you all marshie
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Then that is what you must do. Savour every second. I used to look at my man as I sat next to him on the back Porch (the treehouse) at an angle where he couldn't see me face on and I would literally absorb every molecule of him and could not believe that soon he would not be here. I used to say to myself. "well, he is her now and that's all any of us have ...NOW." Enjoy, cherish and savour the special love .....D
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Footie & Bill, I was saddened to read your latest post, I hope you have been able to fulfilled your wish and spend some lovely time together. Sending cyber hugs Naomi (GISTER)
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