Sigh...
Was actually looking for a chat room. What I should be doing is hooking up to a local support group in town, rather than the internet. Maybe this will help too, dunno.
Mum has breast cancer with bone mets. She was diagnosed last year. A hip replacement later and we are living with it. It is true, everyone suffers. It is a god-awful disease for the living.
Cant believe this is happening even still, it is a living nightmare.