Hi Marley. My name is Michelle. I'm 54 and was diagnosed with extensive stage small cell lung cancer 10 weeks ago. I've been having immunotherapy and chemotherapy since the first week and have my last round of chemotherapy this week. I'm so sorry to read about your husbands diagnosis and that he's not coping. We're all different and react to things differently. I have two beautiful granddaughters and a 24 year old daughter who I'm not ready to say goodbye to yet so I'm battling with all I have to get well and buy some more time. They've told me there's no cure and my cancer is inoperable. Most days I'm okay, but some days I also sit with my head in my hands. I'm under a psychiatrist and psychologist and find that ranking helps. Has your husband tried any therapy.? If not, it might be worth a try. I also hope you are taking care of yourself as that's important. Cancer affects more than just us who are diagnosed and I hope you have support as well. I've found taking one day at a time helps. I can't think any further ahead than that as i find that overwhelming. I hope you and hubby find some peace and can reach out for support when it's needed. Take care of each other. Life is short, but precious. Best regards....
