breast cancer diagnosis

[Sonya444]

Hi new to the community and looking to make connections and be supportive and look for support in a battle of my life. I haven't told my family yet and looking for the right time, but is there a right time to tell them..any thoughts or ideas, I was thinking about writing a letter so I can say all the important things. X

[Maddi_CCNSW]

Hi Sonya444

I'm sorry to hear about your cancer diagnosis.  Writing a letter can be a good idea, as it lets you get everything out that you want to say in a calm way.  You can amend it and share it when you are ready.  The Cancer Council has some good information regarding speaking to friends and family about a cancer diagnosis.  If you like in Australia, you can reach out to Cancer Council for support by calling 13 11 20.  If you don't live in Australia, you can look for local support or speak to your GP.  It's important that you get emotional support at this time.

Telling people you have cancer - Cancer Council Victoria

[Sonya444]

Thank you very much any information that helps me to tell family is good. I wrote it exactly as you say to stay calm when telling them.

[Maddi_CCNSW]

I'm pleased it helped, and I hope you get the support you need.  I hope your treatment goes well.

[Susannah75]

Hi there! I hope you’re doing well. I wanted to check in and see how things have been going for you since your post in October. How did your conversations with family and friends go? I know it can be really challenging to find the right time and words to share such important news. I also understand how scary it can be to receive a first diagnosis and how it can turn your world upside down in ways you may have never experienced or imagined.

As for me, I’m relatively new to this online community and have been going through various posts to better understand the experiences people are sharing. It’s been both enlightening and reassuring to see how others are navigating their journeys. I’ve also been managing my own journey with breast cancer. I was diagnosed with lobular cancer in September and had my bilateral mastectomy in November. I’m now waiting for the results of my Oncotype test to determine the next steps—whether chemotherapy or radiation.

I’m curious to hear how you’ve been managing your treatment and what support has looked like for you. If you feel comfortable sharing, I’d love to connect more. Take care!