Hey Nikki,
Its only now Steve and I are starting to think about the magnitude of what we have been through, really we have lived life in a sense of bracing ourselves for the next thing. Its not easy but we are really keen on moving forward in a positive way and making our situation work for us, I am actually wanting to write a book 9when I get enough courage) to hopefully inspire and help others like us :)
Each day together is a blessing, each day with our kids is amazing and we really do live in the moment. Kids are great for showing you how simple it all really is and how amazing this world is when you really explore.
IVF was hard going but worth every second! we had great support from our GP, Steves oncologist and our fertility specialist. They were all desperate to help us move forward and achieve our goals, they were truly amazing.
No one speaks about cancer and the impact ect...which is why Steve and I are pretty screwed up...LOL! its true. There should be more around for parents with cancer and dealing with the after marth but there is nothing its all trial and error.
you are always welcome to contact me to chat online or by phone to talk about any of the issue that come up and they will. Its a very emotional time having a baby not to mention the hormone rush we get from having our bubbas, support is pretty important.
Can;t wait to hear about your little mans safe arrival 🙂
