I have secondary bone cancer along with Myeloma. I am on Morpheine, day and night and still in excruating pain. Waiting on Biopsy to find out which one is giving me the pain, I suspect the bone cancer. My question is, when do you sonsider palliative care and can you have a private room. I saw my mother die in one of those public hospices and it was awful, people going each day, I dont want to see that. Would rather just do it alone in a private room. I have private insurance. TIA And has anybody been helped with chemo at this late stage for the pain and should I excercise or not. Its very painful just to walk.