Hi folks I hope this isn't a strange or stupid or insensitive question. Our bodies have started succumbing to stress of my hubby's mum fighting her terminal lung cancer and I'm hoping that finding a lump in my breast a few months ago, which now feels like a thickening/ridge instead of a small lump is just a stress thing. I've had a shooting pain in that area too for at least a few months, maybe longer (this year has been a blur), which has been intermittent even when I don't have a period - I'd like to have written it off as normal hormonal stuff. My hubby has started getting migraines and I've got cold sores breaking out everywhere (even had one on my leg, which was weird). His mum has sharply declined since having radiation with bad side effects, but still wants to live on her own at home, so we're trying to figure out how to best encourage her to come and live with us or find another solution that she's happy with, so that she's not on her own. Anyway, back on track.... I got the courage to ask the GP to check my breasts earlier this week when having a pap smear and checkup. I thought I was imagining it and hoped to put it down to stress, but she could feel it as well She's written me up for a mammogram and ultrasound (I'm 33), which will be done next Tues. Of all the health probs in my family, fortunately cancer isn't one of them, so I'm very low risk. Most likely it is just a fibroid or something (I'm hoping). But..... if anyone doesn't mind sharing, I was wondering whether anyone just had a lump and pain/tenderness which ended up being malignant, or whether I'm worrying over nothing? I've been into the breast cancer org'n website which has lots of information and I don't have other symptoms they describe of (nipple discharge etc), so I'm hoping it will be a fibroid. My mum had a 5inch fibroid removed when she was in her early twenties, and a lump could be a 100 different non-cancerous things... so here's hoping.