That was similar to when a friend (an old and very good one at that) asked when I was diagnosed whether I would converting my super pension to a lump sum now? She didn't want my family to miss out on any of my entitliements. She is still a a very supportive friend in the long run, but sometimes people just don't think do they? S ... View more

I saw the title of this post and knew it had to be you Harker! Damn it. My money was on Picc Line. Did recurrence come in last?? Hopefully it was scratched. S ... View more

Hi, I agree with Sailor. I finished treatment 3 years ago and onlu started having ssome counselling earlier this year.That and the anti=ds have really helped. At the moemnt I am working huge hours and really tired but I will get back to you on this as it is one of my hobby horses. Samex ... View more

Go Willow!!! I'm so pleased for you. You sound so positive! Have a wonderful time in Phuket. mY thoughts these days are that you need to definitely create the memories. Np point sitting at home looking at "things". Of course you will be nervous about your decision to resign and maybe it is the beginning of the "new normal". I think part of my issues have been that I did just return to the same old job and the expectations were/are that everything is how it was.As we all know, that is far from the case. Once again, well done! And have an amazing and relaxing time. Soak up some sun for me! S ... View more

I was going to be almost serious and suggest the ginger and lime refresher cordial with soda water, with a sprig of mint.A chemo survival drink of choice. BUT - I feel that you are in greater need of the green ginger wine etc. Perhaps it is not only for recalcitrant males like yourself to get in touch with your feminine side but also a little payback for those raised eyebrows at times of incomprehensible moods and the irrational behaviour of your opposite gender. Take it easy Sailor, and the ginger does help.Either that or Maxalon! S ... View more

Thanks guys. Let the metaphors continue!! S ... View more

Oh Sailor, I do feel for you but marvel at your continued sense of humour(albeit sometimes of the darker kind). As a 53 year old female (50 at time of chemo), the only good thing about chemo was the acceleration of menopause.What had commenced about 6-12 months earlier ran away screaming at the onslaught of chemo. The hot flushes still make occasional appearances but they are usually overridden by numb and/or tingling hands and feet. As I continue to say,however, at least we are here to feel them. Take care, S ... View more

Hi all, Feeling a little wonky from colonoscopy today but all good news as I trundle further towards 3 and 1/2 and 4, then 5 years. As my surgeon said today, just one small "weed" that needed removing and he doesn't seem to think that it was anything nasty. Hopefully I can stretch it to 2 years this time! Hope everyone is doing OK. S ... View more

What a great memory you have Sailor. Perhaps artist_inrecovery could design something. The mind boggles! S ... View more

Just went back to your post and giggled at the significance of your quote. Haha ... View more