Hi Dee, I'm sorry that you are experiencing all this extra stress. Having a partner with Cancer is stressful enough! My husband has stage 4 Prostate Cancer, with no cure, just having treatments to try and buy us some time. I realised at the time of his diagnosis (5 weeks ago) that this was going to bring huge changes to our lives, so my advice to you, is to get help NOW. I reached out to the Cancer Council and have been put in touch with a wonderful sympathetic Counsellor who has already helped me into a plan of action. Also, reading your post, are you able to think about having dinners delivered? We do, Lite N Easy for us, only for dinners, which frees up my personal time for other important things. One thing that is helpful is to realise that when very sick people get cranky, it is often the illness speaking so being patient and ignoring the hurt feelings will help. I hope this has been even a little helpful for you. You are not alone, there are so many of us out there. Wishing you all the very best.  Heather xx ... View more