I hear ya.. similar thing going on ( has gone on ) with ,my husband ( he had a gr 4 glioblastoma) but now he’s almost back to normal, physically and mentally.. A therapist or counselor could help you sort out things and this might help you feel much better . They could help you on dealing with this situation.. Hope you get to a better place…don’t forget, you matter, too, ... View more

You could try a regular counselor. You can talk about how you are being treated and get tools to help you with boundaries or not allowing it.. ... View more

I know what you mean, I’ve helped out with my husband since last April. I am the designated driver, and have helped keep everything sanitary and organized , home, food, bills, his Dr appts, his questions on his health problems etc, his medications etc.. sine last April. You have nothing to be guilty about, it’s important you make time for yourself to do your hobbies or run errands, exercise or socialize. Let him know it’s nothing against him..( mine acts similarly but has always been that way.j. You’ll feel so much better if you make time for just yourself. It usually will help you deal with things a little better..( it’s still hard, I know) My spouse is luckily doing better now, adjuvant chemo is working ok for him..he’s physically doing much better ( he’s never been in hardly any pain, thank goodness) so far so good., he seems about 95% back to normal.. Talking with a counselor could be an option tp help you lighten the load a little. I wish you the best, you are not alone. ... View more

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m new to this site and it’s April 4, 2024. I hope things are better now. ... View more