As one who has been through this cancer battle once before, I feel for your struggle and wondering if things will ever be the same, or if you can or will live through this. Up until now, I was 14 1/2 years free of stage 2 Breast Cancer. Back in February, I was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer recurrence, and am doing very well treatment wise.  Your main objective to getting through cancer the first time around, is having a strong support system, be it family, friends, or your church family, finding ways to keep your mind off of your diagnosis, such as physical fitness (walking, riding a bicycle, swimming, muscle exercises to keep your body in shape), reading, listening to upbeat music, watching comedy movies, and just generally trying to keep up a positive mental attitude.  All of the above recommendations that I have made, were things that had pulled me though my initial cancer diagnosis to begin with, and regaining contact with old friends helped a great deal.  As I am heading into this next phase of my life with a stage 4 metastatic recurrence, I am learning to be more of service to others, be a bit more compassionate to others, and also learning that I can count on others to give me strength and guidance, when I feel as though I have none.  Having a pet to care for is also a very good stress reliever. They show unconditional love and joy, and are there for you when no one else is. You are in my prayers as you battle this demon. ... View more