Firstly, can I say you express yourself beautifully ... your optimism and love for your life shine brightly! I myself have just been diagnosed with breast cancer and am about to start chemo. It is certainly a frightening new journey and it is now not even a month since I was diagnosed. Plus I have to tell my adult children.  My daughter is about to leave for Europe for 3 months and I know this will hit her hard. There will be thoughts of  "Do I have the gene too?" So I need to give her the time to address that concern for peace of mind before she goes. Can I suggest, as someone newly embarked on this "detour" in life that you ask for a much help as you can? I have found everyone so far helpful and understanding and I learned quickly which sources to trust for information and to stay away from Facebook groups. You may find there are specific groups in your area you can check out for in person support which I have personally found a great help. I wish you well.  You are not alone and please reach out when you need to.  Sending you hugs 🙂   ... View more