Hiya Miss Lane
I have had breastcancer twice in the same breast in the last 7 years. Both cancers were completely different and primary cancers. My oncologist suggested i should be tested for BRCA1 and 2 genes, because both cancers were quite aggressive, the 2nd one being triple negative. I am not sure why you say your mothers DNA is needed to be tested - my family lives overseas and only mine was tested. I do not carry the BRCA1 nor BRCA2 genes. However, i might be carrying a gene that has not been discovered yet, that makes me pre disposed to breastcancer. The good news is, with me not being a carrier of these genes, it makes me less at risk to get ovarian cancer. Something less to worry about i guess.
I took the test because i wanted to know if i carry both genes for my sister and mother's sake, and for my daughters sake.
I had a lumpectomy, the first time and had a mastectomy when i discovered the second lump. Like mrs Eltons sister-in -law, i had a reconstruction with skin from my tummy, immediately after my mastectomy.
A year later, i decided to have a prophylactic mastectomy and had a reconstruction with an implant.
I can understand that it is a hard decision to make, I can only tell you what mine was.
I had the prophylactic mastectomy for peace of mind, there was no cancer in that breast - and I felt like i took control of a situation that was out of my hands for a while.
I am back at work full time and back at the gym 6 months later, I am fit and healthy and i feel that I have made the right decision for me. You have to weigh up what is best for you.
Happy to have a chat to you whenever you want.
Good luck, Take care
Luv Barbe xo
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