Hi Dean, I am so sorry on the loss of your wife. So young and such a short time after diagnosis. I always say 'it is hardest for the ones left behind' and I really do feel your pain. It sounds like you will have the help you need with your son, from family, etc, but you must make sure that you get any help that YOU need! I hope things settle down a little bit for you over the coming time, but throughout all the sadness, please remember the good times. Take care and remember, there a some lovely people on this site, just ready and willing to talk to you and listen to you. Take care of your son and yourself! Di ... View more