Special hugs for you too Superwoman. A long time you have had together and yet its not that much. I feel your husband is also blessed by your being there, your nurturing, caring and love Be gentle with yourself if you fall flat. It hard looking on and can do no more. Sometimes it becomes a journey all on their own and the hopelessness takes hold. Thats hard and a place I get scared of. Hugs Geoff ... View more