April 2012
Hi Glenys,
Thank you for your reply. Firstly I must say that I am not scared, my step-dad died from bowel cancer 14 years ago so we have been through this already. Although no one wants to die from cancer we have to accept that cancer is becoming more prevalent in Australia and other Western countries, to the point that it is expected that one in two of us will have cancer of some kind by the time we are 85.
Luckily for most people their cancers are curable, caught early enough bowel cancer has a very good cure rate. Mine however was not found until it was very advanced. We all will die, a fact no one can escape from, I see no purpose in being angry or scared, this is how things are. Making the best of the time I have left is a much better use of that small amount of time.
Deb
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April 2012
MSN Messenger chat user seeking new chat friends.
I am 51, have stage 4 bowel cancer and will die sometime this year. I have already lived a lot longer than the oncologists expected but have stopped chemo and now only receive palliative care. I am a practical thinker & a realist but do try to find the silver lining in most grey clouds.
If you are interested in becoming a chat friend please private message me and we can see if we click and take it from there.
I hope to hear from someone
Deb
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April 2012
When I first joined Cancer Connections I hoped that I would be able to find like minded people in a similar situation to chat with, this has not been easy, many times you think that you have made a connection with someone and then you never receive an answer. The few people that I have had the privilege to connect to one on one have enabled me to talk about some difficult subject matters with people who do know what I am going through. Through this sharing and support of each other we all become stronger, everyone needs to talk, at all times of the day and night.
We use MSN messenger, a safe, ad free and private set up that can allow up to 15 people ( I am sure someone will tell me if this is incorrect) to chat per session.
Is there any way that Cancer Connections can set up a notice board allowing us to ask for like minded members to private message us, this way we could message each other first to make sure it is a good match before we progress to giving out our MSN addresses (with MSN you still have to allow someone to be your friend and can block anyone you do not wish to chat with anymore)
Deb
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April 2012
Hi Johnno (or is it Neil)
Yes you have a huge decision to make, and no one but you can make it in the end as you have to live (or not) with the outcome. There are many things you need to get information on before you decide.
What stage are you at, what other medical problems do you have? What type of chemo, side effects? Then you need to talk with your family, the amount of support you get makes a huge difference. I could go on and on but won't. Read my profile, if you want to ask me any questions about it please message me.
Wishing you all the best
Deb
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February 2012
RIP Andrew (Old Hippy) no more "shit" to battle through anymore. Will miss your wicked sense of humour and very outrageous emails. Don't forget to save me a good spot.
Love Deb
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December 2011
Is there anyone else who can't log into tonight's session or is it just me?
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