Hi Mel, From my perspective I think I have the easier end of this hell, yes I will die but I will not have to deal with the fallout. This will be the 2nd time my mum looses someone to cancer, first my step-dad and next me. Just love your mum and tell her that and be there for her, it is so much for us all to deal with and she needs to do it her way even if it breaking your heart. Make sure that you are at peace with doing the best you can for her and yourself. Talk as much as you can with her, if she is open to it, I hope that you have strong and postive family & friends around you. Be strong Deb ... View more