Hi Terri, This site is a very supportive place to be a part of. Even if you just post your blog about what is going on from one day to the next, there is always someone who will reply with a word of support or encouragement. You look after yourself. Just remember to enjoy the good times as much as possible and be prepared for the bad ones. When those not so good days hit, let yourself ride through them. My plans are also on the back burner, or should I say that what were my plans are no on the back burner. I now have a new set of plans and goals which both myself and my wife are determined to work through. Life is still there, it's just changed now with something else, unplanned and unwanted, in it. Take care Terri and enjoy what you can when you can. Tim ... View more