November 2012
I feel so guilty because it has been a long time since I have been on this site and I so wanted to be able to share my journey bit by bit in the hope it would help even 1 person.Anyway that wasn't to be so I am here now and think I can finally share,I had my surgery on the 30th August to have my rectal passage removed,part of my bowel removed and to have a stoma made to have a permanent colostomy. I don't remember much about the first few days other than the epidural didn't work and it took a couple of days to finally find a nurse who called an anaethetist to check, having done that I was put on a morphine pump and the days just went by. I was able to come home on the 4th September and I felt okay still sore but okay. Then it happened something I knew nothing about both my stomach and my back passage wounds broke down so with a 20cm long and 16cm deep back passage wound it was off to emergency and back into hospital.After 2 more operations to clean out the wounds it was decided the only way to heal these woun
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June 2012
Dear Dotty,I am truly sorry to hear that you lost your beloved Rex,but am so glad that you were there at the end and that you have been able to draw some comfort from that.You have been an inspiration to all not only carers but cancer patients also,I feel so much strength from you and am so glad that you have been there.You are in my thoughts and prayers and we will all be here if or when you feel a need.God Bless you Dotty be kind to yourself.xx
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June 2012
Hi Rubes,Your positivity and spirit are a credit to you and you inspire others at the same time,just reading your words has woken me up and stopped me feeling sorry for myself.You stay focused on your wedding and keep up the attitude you have and you will kick butt. Huge hugs and wishes Tina.xx
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June 2012
I hope with all my heart that you are in the 10% and beat this disease,but I believe your positivity and fighting spirit are worth more than any stats.These attributes can beat any stat and nobody can measure how much they help and contribute to wellbeing,you stay on the path you are on and continue to fight the way you know how,I am cheering for you and have every faith that you can and will do it.Huge Hugs and wishes your way Tina
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June 2012
It is perfectly normal to feel vulnerable at this time,even if you don't know the results of this doesn't mean it isn't scary.I to found it difficult to understand some peoples reaction to the word cancer,we do live in a society I believe where people are scared of just the word let alone the real thing,I am trying in my own little section of the world to make this different,it is not always easy.Good luck with your results and know there are people out here who will be there.Tina
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June 2012
Dear John,I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your soul mate,there are no words that I can offer to help heal the pain you are feeing.Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.Tina
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June 2012
Hi Wombat, Thanks for the positive story it really makes a difference,it helps to know people care and can pass on good stories as we so often hear negative stories.I will look forward to the day I meet my future grandchildren and very much enjoy seeing them become annoying teenagers.Thanks Wombat hugs and wishes.Tina
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June 2012
Hi Jan, You succeeded the other day to put a smile on my face and after this story you have done it again. Little stories like these keep us going and make it easier to face the tough times,I was always taught laughter is the best medicine and I have once again had a good dose from your story. I will remember your mum when I am changing my bag and it will continue to bring a smile. Thankyou for sharing huge hugs and wishes to you Tina
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June 2012
Hi Maggie Mae,Thankyou so much for your message of hope and positive thoughts.You have put a smile on my face and a new hope in my heart and for that I am truly thankful.I will now take your advice and believe.Huge hugs and wishes Tina
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June 2012
Dearest Dotty, there are no words I can offer to ease the pain and hurt you are going through right now,you have done an amazing job to look after Rex for as long as you have and now that you can no longer do this at home must be truly heartbreaking.The love and support you have for Rex will continue whilst he is in hospital and beyond.You are a very brave lady and it truly breaks my heart to read this news.You and Rex are in my thoughts and prayers.As I have so often heard and appreciated hearing from you gently gently . Tina
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