Hi i have a beautiful mother in law who has recently been diagnosed with bowel, liver, bone and lung cancer 7 weeks ago, she has had one session of chemo but unfortunately it has left her severely effected, she has been placed in pallative care and has since developed a chesty cough and looks like remaining their until the end. The hardest think i am finding is i want to ask and tell her so many things but she is from the school where they dont talk about their emotions and i am finding this so hard, she doesnt want to go outside in the sunshine and not the sort to hold a hand or huge on hugs how can you let her know we are thankful to her and how much she is loved she seems to have distanced herself from us and become like she has put a guard up.Ive taken flowers, organised what i can, but they are only material not emotional things. I am finding it hard every day i get up my mind is on a constant radio station and feeling anxious and dont seem to be able to sit still any suggestions would be greatlly appreciated. thankyou ... View more