Hi my name is Melodysunshine. My husband is in the last days of multiple myeloma. I live on a sixty acre property and am isolated and alone. I am his sole carer. He has refused all treatment and has now refused any medical intervention from his GP except pain meds. He is very, very ill but none of us know what is causing his illness. We think - palliative care and myself - that he is suffering the effects of hypercalciuma. He is not eating; drinks little has nausea, vomiting, constipation and is extremely agitated, aggressive and angry. I am at my wit's end and don't know what is to come. It is scary because he will not go to hospital even if he is un-conscious. Palliative care ring me twice a week and visit every four to five weeks. ... View more