Hi Ejb, The roller coaster of emotions you are going through right now is natural. Please know that you are never a burden to your family or friends. In a time like this people want to share your pain and help in whatever way possible. I went through the death of my dad when I was young and was so caught up in my own grief that I forgot how my mum was feeling. She was putting on a brave face because of the children but was aching inside. Spend as much time as you can with your dad and keep telling him you love him with lots of hugs and kisses. He needs your support now. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Virginia x ... View more

Hi My dad also passed away from this dreadful disease in September. I understand completely what your saying about your mum and she is very fortunate to have your support. I am supporting my mum through this also but I suggested she see a grief counsellor which has been beneficial as she can say whatever she wants without upsetting anyone. It does take time - people keep saying this, I think you just learn to deal with it better. I miss my dad so much and the worst part of the illness was watching him get sicker. I keep telling myself he died peacefully and is in a better place without pain. Take care ... View more