My story: I met him early November last yr. we were seeing each other n liked each other, everything was going smooth!
he was diagnosed with Lymphoma in feb, he was keeping me informed, then one day sms me That i should not worry about him anymore as he can't be a good partner like I deserve n he wants to focus on his daughter! I replied with I will respect his wishes. he wanted to see me plenty. He did call me to see him at the hospital which he appreciated my company. Last few weeks completely shut me out! I am a pretty positive person. You can cure yourself, you can change your life, I believe in all of that. He has some of my books which is good however I receive a call from his best friend giving me some details about where he is at, he had asked his friend to call me.
He is 28 and I'm 27. So i have been giving him weekly SMS to insure he knows I'm here. Leaving him gifts at home. Calls once a week. Finally yesterday he replies with I don't have long to go so I'm spending it with my family n daughter n thanks for everything. I told him about Robert Von who does the betroot juicing and that it can really help him., .n told him that I'm crazy about him. How do I know the difference between 'I don't want you around-leave me alone' or enjoying the MSG but just focusing on my experience' eg time to let go or hang in der n b patient. Between hey I want to give up or hey give me some inspiration to switch my thought pattern. Between being assertive to see him or being patient?
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