Thanks for the welcome Felix and that information 🙂 I hadn't thought of looking at NZ sites. I wasn't sure about the introductions area as given as it's not me who has cancer I didn't want to muscle in on other forums and figured this one was the place to start. I may post there too! Rosey you are not alone, see I wasn't sure where I should start on here either! I hope your family in the UK can come and visit you and your husband, sorry to hear that you both have cancer. I can only imagine how difficult that would be, on the one had you might have more of an appreciation of what you are each going through, but with your own support needs the other may not be able to provide that support all of the time depending how they are doing/feeling themselves. Silly - I agree, its always in times of need that people seek support. It's good to know that there are people out there, reading if not replying :) We have decided to have our official ceremony in NZ in January as we are going to spend Christmas with Dad. My partners parents and sister will come over from the UK for it and my Mum and step dad from Queensland. Then we will have our ceremony in Vegas with all of our friends and our family will be there also - just probably not my Dad unless he is well and able to travel. You never know I guess, must stay positive! ... View more

Hi Junas Yeah it seems like people have been reading posts over time but there haven't been many recent replies. I wonder if everyone's on a different forum?! Anyone else out there? We'll have to be our own support group! I shall go and read your introductory post! ... View more