Hello, So sorry to hear your news. I can relate to your situ as my Mother 87yrs is Terminal. As her Carer I was looking for the same info to help me to foresee the changes she is going through and how to deal with what is inevitable. I found this site and it does give you insight. http://www.livestrong.com/article/253822-final-stages-of-life-from-cancer/ My Mother has a mass in the groin which was a lymph node they missed. We are trying alternative treatments as in diet an supplements, but its difficult with the elderly and her mobility from the Mass is limiting this.Her's is a rare Vulva Cancer. ... View more