I live just far enough away from dad that I've seen his cancer jouney through email and phone calls. I feel disconnected by the 200km between us but I'm about to go visit him for real. I helped him write a blog www.vivarajiva.com at least there's something I could help him with. They say Dad has perhaps 6 months to live, less than 5 now that it's November. What I think started off as skin cancer is now in his bones. He doesn't use much official medical terminology. I have to say I'm touched by everything I've read here. These forums read like a a suppotive community, where people can let it all hang out : say what you're feeling with people who understand. for anyone who's been in this situation: How do you deal with a prognosis like that: youself or a loved one, a few months to go? ... View more