Hello,
I know exactly how you are feeling. My father had a brain tumour when I was 20/21 (am now 23)
It's a very hard thing to be there for them as well as keeping yourself sane. My best advice is to make sure you take good care of yourself, eat regular meals. I stopped eating when my dad was really sick and it just made me more emotional and unwell.
I would sometimes feel strange just being around my dad, especially after the surgery. Try not to let the physical changes take over your mind. Just focus on being with her and caring for her and loving her.
I am new to this forum, but I can see now that I should have joined much earlier.
I hope your mum is doing ok. x
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