thanks for your comment. My mum is a private lady who only lets us know what she wants us to know. It's hard as im an info girl who wants to know instantly what is going on lol. Mum was seeing an oncologist today to find out what the next step is. But her being her she probably wont mention anything to my sister and i until she gets home (She's currently away). But, i have to respect her wishes and just let things be (as hard as it is. Like she says "what will be, will be". ... View more

We've found out more about what is happening. The tumor is on the very tip of the pancreas which was squeezing the bile duct preventing the bile duct to work properly. So, they operated and did a double Bilery bypass to relieve mum from her severe jaundice and so that the tumor wont affect the function any more. Once she has healed and is stronger they will start her with chemo. I am so scared. what ive looked up so far doesn't bode well for remission, and as they predict that the tumors in her liver are secondary cancers it means its harder to treat and drops the survival rate. Looking for advice and support as it is still early days. weve only known for just 3 weeks but already feels like forever ... View more